Friday, September 21, 2012

365 Days of Love. Day 154


At the beginning of the year, I hysterically cried after an elementary class (I literally blubbered) because a girl hit a boy and madness preceded to follow. It was, I thought, my ultimate demise as an educator. I felt as if I had failed.

Both classes have since been occurring with only minor kinks. Yesterday, though, during my 2nd grade special, I nearly cried again. Only this time, it wasn’t out of frustration or feelings of inadequacies. This time, my near tears were rooted in the mangled combination of joy and disbelief.

Two second graders were on either side of my lap while we read an I Spy book. One is a teacher’s dream student. She raises her hand, she participates, she reads above grade level. The other is a sweet little boy who struggles to sound out sight words.  As the three of us read and searched for the hidden pictures in the book, I felt so connected to the little beings that graced my knees. I could have spent the entire afternoon finding pictures in that book with them.

Then, I remembered reality, the unbelievable reality.

The Rez is sad. It’s not sad because the people are sad, it’s sad because it seems so barren. It seems so lost. I haven’t been here long and it would be unfair for me to draw conclusions about this community, but I know the people living here deserve more. I know the second graders that snuggle close to me deserve more.

Reality is hard to choke down especially when it seems so loveless, when it withholds opportunity from such deserving people. But, in those deserving people, in my second graders and fifth graders, there is a vision for a stronger reality one day.

There is a vision for a lovely reality. 

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